Who hasn’t struggled with this one?  If you have a boyfriend, what’s the deal around staying together, for how long, and with what rules? 

Can you ‘play around’?  If you do, do you need to agree this with your boyfriend?  Or do the only worthy relationships have firm agreement that all romantic and sexual attention is directed at that one person, and at that person only?  Is fidelity only about sex, or does it draw in the depths of our personalities and the morals, beliefs and behaviour that govern our relationships?

You decide what’s right for you, and you and your boyfriend agree these things together.  You can take responsibility so that you can enjoy and make the most of your relationships.

Take a look at the first page of this four-week programme by clicking on the Preview button below.  If you'd then like to buy it, just click on Buy now to go through to our payment page.  This tells you how to download the programme.


This programme will enable you to:
-    know exactly what you mean by being faithful;
-    maintain harmony with your boyfriend;
-    enjoy healthy sexual and emotional relationships.


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Fidelity is one of a range of self-help courses for gay men.

To look at the full range of courses for gay men on dating, finding and keeping a boyfriend, click here.

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Adam Clark & Tony Dines - Gay Life Coach

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